Hello beautiful readers, friends and family
Today I want to talk about how to get a healthy attitude to finances. In my journey learning about money and finances I notices that a huge amount of prejudices invades the thinking of the population and that only a few people really understand how to handle money/finances productively to their own advantage and satisfaction.
First of all I recomend you to see this video to start: The Secret – The Law Of Attraction
It is a fun simple movie to introduce: The Secret – Law Of Attraction
People often complain about their job they “have” to do, to get “some money” so they can pay their bills and eat some food etc.
People also complain very often about how money and payment is distributed in society… how there is people who earn millions while their sleep and others work 12 hours a day to get two dollars in the day.
My question to each person reading this is: What are you worthy of? Are you worthy of a wealthy life with all kind of prosperities, where you can fully strive? Or are you just worthy of sickness, one meal a day, a shabby home unhappiness and no ending stagnancy?
I have to say, that I started like this asking myself what I am worthy … almost everyday I ask this to me and say a big YES! I´M WORTHY OF ALL THE WONDERFUL THINGS AND EXPERIENCES THIS LIFE HAS TO OFFER!
Think there are some steps to reach our full potential and a healthy attitude to finances and also believe that this is a beautiful journey where we learn so much while getting to our goals.
The first step and the most important of all is facing our own prejudices against wealth, money, finances, work and what others do (beeing honest: it is not even our business)
Define wealth for you, what is wealth for you? Not what other say, not what is supposed to be, what you want is important here, your own personal individual definition. Write it down. Now start to think, if this definition you have, is really what you want…. what YOU want, not what others want, not what is supposed to want, your own personal individual wanting of wealth. If it doesn´t match with your definition, change your definition with that what you really want. Your wanting gets your own personal individual definition.
Now write your new definition down. Meditate everyday on it, print it on your nightdress and sleep with it every night or whatever you need to do to rewrite your prejudices against wealth in your subconsious mind, do it. Never be afraid to change it, if you have a better idea or understanding of your own individual definition of wealth.
Our attitude to money is sometimes very illogical and our prejudices against money are based on very negative thoughts we probably learned from the failure of others… so they are not even ours, because we never learnded to define our own attitude to money.
The most ridiculous and illogical prejudice against money I have ever heard is:
“MONEY DOESN´T GROW ON TREES”
….Oh really? From what it is made of? Paper right? And paper is made of trees, right? So yes, money grows on trees!!! ….But there are thouse little meanings we give, so we can make life complicated.
Listen to all your negative thoughts you say to yourself and to others, realize them, catch them and substitute them with good thoughts that help you feel good about the amount of money YOU want to have.
I already wrote a blog entry explaining why do I love love money Here is the link to it: Why do I love love money …it also explains to think on what we want to spend/invest our money.
Define the word work for you. Now write it down. Now think again, is your definition based on something you learned from others or your own personal individual definition? Now think again, think on your own personal individual definition of work, how does work look for YOU, how does work make YOU happy and write it down. If it doesn´t match with your first definition, change it like in point #1.
One thing we everybody have to know to understand why some earn money while they sleep and others earn a minimum and work 12 hours like a horse: MONEY/FINANCES HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WORK! Eventhough there are people that like to be payed for their work, but this is an issue of taste or even a learned issue: “You have to feel good when you work and are payed” (Really? …And what about thouse who don´t feel good, because they are not doing what they are supposed to do? Is really money a reward?)
There are many ways to learn how to invest money and let it work for itself and “work” on the things you really want to do in your very precious time on this Earth. So if you want a change on this, visit seminars, school, read books etc. on how to do this. There are plenty of possibilities on this planet, just be creative and do it! Don´t run around and complain about how unhappy you are and how bad everything is and how poor you are… annoying others with your unhappiness… Happy people don´t even care about unhappy people anyway, they are to bussy with their own happiness and the happiness of others
4. WHAT OTHERS DO
What others do is none of our business! We have to stay focused on what we are doing right or wrong, towards our own personal individual understanding and definition what is right or wrong.
If what we see in others helps us to advance in our journey, than we can learn from them. This is a possitive way to see what other do.
We are so different people in this planet Earth, that we have to learn to tolerate the way of living, the purpouses on this Earth of others. Some just came here to pray, dream and meditate all day and others came to work like horses…. the point is: Are you working like a horse, because you really really love it? No matter what your preferences are, just make shure you love it! This is a very individual journey from each of us and there is no judging about what others are doing. This judging come from people who are unhappy with what they are doing themselves anyway and aren´t capable to change it, so they have to be hating to the ones who are living what they are.
If you are one of thouse unhappy people bothering others,but want to change it and have a healthy happy life, read this and don´t be afraid to take little steps to action, one step after another and you will see how you will understand everything from another point of view and your life and happiness will start to change to a very good life
Now to get deep into a understanding, I want to recommend you to look at this videos that will be the first lessons for change:
I really love the part when it is explained how our conscious and our subconscious mind functions, it is so good explained, that nobody can fail on that.
One very very important point to succed is to be patient, patient with ourselves, patient with the Universe or whatever you believe is God/Source of everything, that everything will come at it´s exactly right moment.
So I hope this blog entey helps millions and millions of people and we soon can see more happy people on this planet Earth doing what they love.
I wish you a wonderful day!
Hugs & Kisses